Articles Tagged 'Divorce'

For over 30 years, Heartlight has shared articles to help people live for Jesus in everyday life. While we are no longer publishing new articles, this enduring collection features relevant pieces throughout the year to encourage faith, offer biblical perspective, and speak to real-world joys and struggles.

A Thanksgiving Conversation

Tom Norvell shares an imaginary but important conversation between himself and God.

What would a frank conversation between us and God about thankfulness look like?

Almost Destroyed by the Actions of Another

Stacy Voss shares the parallel between a house burned by a nearby car and the destruction in her life because of infidelity and divorce.

Can you come back from near total destruction?

Letting Hatred Go...

Stacy Voss reminds us that we can let our bitterness and un-forgiveness poison us and steal our lives from us.

Why do we hold onto the things that poison us the most?

Sometimes There Are No Answers

Tom Norvell reminds us that there are a lot of questions in life that we cannot get answers to; but more than answers, we need God's presence.

What do you do when you can't figure out the answer?

Standing on the Edge of a new Adventure

Ron Rose writes about redemption and even more of sanctification, the slow work of God to transform us into something new and better and more like Him and reminds us that this is a process.

What does God have in store for this New Year?

When Heroes Fall

Rubel Shelly reminds us of the moral climate behind the messes that we often cause and the way out of the mess we are in.

What do we do and what can learn and how can we help?

As Different as...

Phil Ware continues his series on Outside the Walls, looking at Nicodemus and the Samaritan woman at the well and reminding us that they are more alike than they are different: both need Jesus and his truth, life, and love.

How important are our differences?

What Would You Say?

Phil Ware shares the four ways two are made into one in marriage: socially, physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

What in the world is love at last sight?

Who Cares What Your Children Pray?

Joe Beam talks about the damage to children because of divorce using scientific evidence to refute the anecdotal "God wants me to be happy" excuse said so often.

Should I stay?

Risky Gratitude

Stacy Voss shares the principle about thinking about the lovely things of God in your partner and not the bad things or the deficits.

Why take this risk?

Why Such Bad Answers?

Rubel Shelly talks about the try it before you buy idea, the test drive mentality, that infests the idea about marriage in modern society and he boils the problem down to selfishness.

Where did this try it before you buy idea come from?

Love Path 911: Can We Have a Good Marriage?

Joe Beam answers the reader's question about having a good marriage again after all the hurt and sinfulness?

After all that has happened, can we have a good marriage?

Love Path 911: Emotional Affair

Joe Beam answers questions on love, sex, and relationships; this one focuses on an emotional affair.

Should she get out of the relationship?

10 Things to Do When Affairs Happen

Joe Beam shares his passion and recommendations for rescuing couples when an affair has blow apart their lives.

Is there anything I can do to help redeem this situation?

Irreconcilable Differences

Warren Baldwin encourages us to try harder in our marriage relationships to prevent divorce using the standard irreconcilable differences as our reason for splitting up a marriage.

What really is the cause?

Power to Change People

Paul Faulkner cites a recent Wallstreet Journal report on domestic violence and observes that change happens one man and one family at a time.

Can anything change our decaying culture for the better?

Divorce in all its Realism

God is able to help couples avoid divorce, if we'll just let Him do it.

Is divorce the right decision?

Divorce and Stress in Children

Paul Faulkner reminds us that divorce causes stress on our children and creates a legacy that impacts their lives, so we need to learn to love each other in words and actions.

How can we help our children long-term?

Good News on Marriage?

Rubel Shelly reflects on the declining number of divorces per population since the 80's and talks about the importance of preparation and commitment in making a marriage work.

Is there actually some good news out there on marriage?

Sticking with God's Ideal

Paul reminds us of God's plan for marriage, without divorce; so let's fight to keep it.

Why do we not fight harder to stick with God's ideal?

Divorce and Children

Divorce hurts kids and wounds adults and we must prevent it.

Is it really that big a deal?

A Lion in the Kitchen

The Devil is a lion and we let him into our kitchens, our homes, by treating temptation as a little kitten rather than a roaring lion wanting to devour us.

What would you do to find this beast in your kitchen?

The Real Reason

Selfishness is what really lies behind all of marriage problems and the devil wants to use selfish people and marriage problems to render the church ineffective.

Let's cut through the fluff and deal with the real issue here!

I Hate War

A trip around the Mall in Washington, D.C., leads Tom to reflect on how much he hates war and how he longs for the peace of Christ.

Will they ever cease? Will we ever have relief?

Her Favorite Flower

We must learn to be much more selfless and much less self-serving in our marriage relationships.