Articles Tagged 'Self' (Page 3)

For over 30 years, Heartlight has shared articles to help people live for Jesus in everyday life. While we are no longer publishing new articles, this enduring collection features relevant pieces throughout the year to encourage faith, offer biblical perspective, and speak to real-world joys and struggles.

Self-control and City Walls

Rubel Shelly talks about ancient cities and how they needed walls and how we need self-control today.

Why is it so hard to control our own behavior?

It's Still Christmas

Rubel Shelly reminds us that Christmas can open our eyes to faith and what the world willfully does not want to see.

Don't let go of Christmas!

Give Thee or Give Me

Bill Sherrill reminds us that the spirit of the Christmas season is giving, not receiving and that we need to be a people with a spirit of thanksgiving.

What's in it for God?

It's Not About Me

We must never be willing to sacrifice the things we believe in to gain popularity, but we must find a way to become all things to all men, so that we may by all means save some.

Become all things to all men...

The Jesus Vibe: Daily Altar of Grace

Phil Ware takes the two love commands of Jesus, the Greatest Commands, and applies them to all of life for a follower of the Lord.

Can't I just keep a little of my life protected from this?

A Selfish Christian?

Mike Barres reminds us that God wants to bless us and he also wants to conform us to Jesus: so let's not use our Christianity for selfish motives.

Isn't this an oxymoron?

Fudging and Compromise

Mike Barres reminds us that taking moral shortcuts and fudging on things spiritually always end up in disaster and sin.

How far are you going to let things slide?

Selfishness Destroys a Home

Paul Faulkner looks at the role maturity and unselfishness play in good families.

What is the real homewrecker?

The Art of Kindergarten Identity

What will it take for us to realize our great value to God simply because he wants us to love him and be with him?

How special are you and why?

The Real Reason

Selfishness is what really lies behind all of marriage problems and the devil wants to use selfish people and marriage problems to render the church ineffective.

Let's cut through the fluff and deal with the real issue here!

HALT

A recovery saying, HALT, reminds us to be careful when we are hungry, angry, lonely, and tired because then we are vulernable to temptation, sin, and weakness as well as addictions.

What do you do when you are emotionally on fire?

Removing the Selfish Part of Me

Selfishness destroys families while self-examination helps us improve ourselves and bless our families.

Why do we keep hanging on to what destroys us?

Exercise Gives Energy

Serving may be hard work, but like good exercise, it develops us into a healthier people.

Why in the world would anyone want to go to such an effort?

Bombarded by Self

When we put self in the middle of everything, then everything becomes about I, me, my, and mine, and not about God and we mess up our self-absorbed lives.

So what's the big problem with all this self stuff?

What's in It for Me?

Some folks are takers, getting everything they can out of life and sucking it dry or leeches who suck the life out of everyone around them who have it.

Should we even ask this question?

Do Something for Someone Else

Jesus thought about others and helped them all the time and so must we.

What are you doing for someone else these days?

The Interests of Others

The interests of others must be our focus and not just our own stuff and wants.

Who do you spend most of your time thinking about?

Transparency

Without transparency we cannot fully share our love or be loved by another.

How can they know your love if you don't share yourself?

Change and Growth

If we are going to change and grow, we're going to have to know what motivates that kind of change: affection, acceptance, and self-respect.

What motivates us to change and growth?

Her Favorite Flower

We must learn to be much more selfless and much less self-serving in our marriage relationships.

I Get Stupid When I'm Tired

We need to recognize that we get a little stupid and out of control when we are tired and so we should do something to prevent it!

When do you go a little around the bend?

Father of Lies

Satan is the Father of lies and tries to get us to believe his cruel and ugly lies.

Whose voice do you listen to?

In Search of a Happy Heart

We take ourselves way too seriously and end up adding unnecessary stress to our lives.

Why do we take ourselves so seriously?

Keep Your Mouth Shut

Sometimes we need to keep our mouths shut and not say a word!

Can you resist the urge to speak when you shouldn't?

He is "I Am"

We are given remarkable freedom in Jesus; we can become like him.

How do we really help people with low self-esteem?