I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the Spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better. I pray that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance in his holy people, and his incomparably great power for us who believe. That power is the same as the mighty strength he exerted when he raised Christ from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly realms, far above all rule and authority, power and dominion, and every name that is invoked, not only in the present age but also in the one to come (Ephesians 1:17-21).
Life has a habit of taking us by surprise. Events catch us off guard and send us reeling. Accident, injury, family stress, divorce, job transfer, layoff — these are some of the high-stress events that can shake one's poise.
The danger is that these things can send people into panic mode. She makes some totally irresponsible statement. He acts without thinking. Harm is done to relationships that can never be undone.
The same events can shake our theological footing. Long-resolved doubts resurface. She withdraws from Christian friends and stops attending church. He begins to blame God for what is happening in his life.
Am I just imagining that people react to life's sneak attacks in these ways? Haven't you seen it too? Is some form of it going on with you right now?
Imagine that your scared-for-his-life husband offered you as a sexual playmate to the man he feared. Put yourself in the place of a teenager forced to spend years in jail because of someone's lie about you. Grasp the hurt of having all of your children killed in the same horrible storm. Keep the bitterness from destroying you when your racial identity has caused some people to deny you your civil rights. These "hypothetical" episodes are the biblical stories of Sarah, Joseph, Job, and Paul.
However, if we could look into heaven at those bitter junctures of life, our hearts would be reassured. Looking into God's face, we would discover there is no sweat on his upper lip. Even if we are shocked and disoriented, he is not. Oh, his lip might be quivering with compassion for our pain, but he is sovereign over his universe. Nothing catches him by surprise. He knows precisely how to get his wounded children through their most harrowing life crises.
The sounds of a howling mob, a whip ripping into bare flesh, and a hammer driving nails into hands and feet were overwhelming sounds — until the tomb was found empty. The same power that raised Jesus then sustains us now.
So, when you feel you are about to lose it, visualize God's upper lip. Trust his promises. Know you are not alone. Wait patiently for the victory.