Articles Tagged 'Hurt' (Page 5)

For over 30 years, Heartlight has shared articles to help people live for Jesus in everyday life. While we are no longer publishing new articles, this enduring collection features relevant pieces throughout the year to encourage faith, offer biblical perspective, and speak to real-world joys and struggles.

Something Better Than a Critic

Rubel Reminds us that there are nearly always good things to say about others if we will look and most folks need something kind and encouraging said to them.

Isn't there anything nice to say?

I Take It Back

Tom Norvell reminds us about the nature of regrets and the wish we hadn't done what we've done, so he encourages us to live life differently.

Sometimes we wish we could put the genie back into the bottle!

Become a Builder

Paul Faulkner reminds us of the preciousness of the church and how we must not criticize each other.

Why tear someone up when you can help them get on track?

How Long, Lord?

Tom Norvell leads us to Psalm 6 and helps us ask, "How long, Lord?" because we all have times when we can barely hang on any longer.

Can you keep hanging in there?

I Was a Snob and It Breaks My Heart

Kimberli Brackett reminds us that it is easy to slip into the role of being prideful and a snob who hurts others because of our silly and stupid pridefulness.

How hard is it to admit that we can be religious snobs?

Divorce and Stress in Children

Paul Faulkner reminds us that divorce causes stress on our children and creates a legacy that impacts their lives, so we need to learn to love each other in words and actions.

How can we help our children long-term?

Good News on Marriage?

Rubel Shelly reflects on the declining number of divorces per population since the 80's and talks about the importance of preparation and commitment in making a marriage work.

Is there actually some good news out there on marriage?

A Far Country

Letting a child go is a scary thing and when they hurt or they are killed or they go through a traumatic experience, it awful for the parent, so all we can do is ask that God be present and real for them.

How can we protect them?

A Lion in the Kitchen

The Devil is a lion and we let him into our kitchens, our homes, by treating temptation as a little kitten rather than a roaring lion wanting to devour us.

What would you do to find this beast in your kitchen?

The Jesus Filter

Russ reminds us that we are to have the mind of Christ, our Jesus filter, through which we process the things in our lives and the way we look at people around us.

How do you process things these days?

Not a Total Loss

A damaging fire that swept through the Norvell home is heartbreaking and hard, but also a reminder of God's constant care.

How much would you have lost?

Downer Jr. High

Ron reminds of how hard change and new things are by talking about a move to a new school at a critical time. But, unless we risk and make changes, we will never find the life God longs to bring to us.

What good can come out of this downer?

George and the Dragon

A hard-hearted person to someone in need reminds Alan of how important it is that we be kind and compassionate to others in our actions as well as in our thoughts.

Are we a dragon to those in need?

The Pleasure of Tight Boots

Sometimes the pleasure we get out of life has to be found in the most challenging of places.

Can you find anything good about tight shoes?

Will the Hurt Never End?

In the times of hardship and trial, it is hard to wait on the Lord because it seems so long before his deliverance, promised and sure as it is, comes to free us from our pain and suffering.

How long will all this mess last, anyway?

When Your Heart Hurts

With an onslaught of bad things happening over the last several weeks, Russ is holding on to hope and faith in God and the steadfast love of the Father.

Is there anyting to really hold on to when your heart aches in the middle of life's messes?

Venting?

We need to vent our anger appropriately with a Christian friend before we lose control and the whole things blows up on us and those around us.

Have you learned to let off a little steam before you blow up?

Family Messes

Christian people can be ugly and ungrateful, but we must be like Jesus in both the way we use our speech and the way we forgive others who are hateful and ungrateful.

How are we to handle the messes of life in the family of God?

The Ultimate Cop-out

A mother's lame explanation for child abuse makes us realize how easy and horrible it is to explain away our own responsibility.

How can you explain this away so nonchalantly?

Sizzling!

Criticism hurts and we often respond unappropriately and hurtfully only making things worse so why don't we take time, weed our own garden, and learn from it.

What do you do when you receive sharp criticims?

A Lighthouse

Jesus is our lighthouse, the light in the darkness sent to guide us safely home.

Can you see the light from where you are?

Poison Ivy

Sin always hurts us and harms those we love, but Satan often delays our consequences so that we can get more and more involved in it and then he deeply wounds us and those we love.

Are you playing with poison?

The Value of Pain

Pain is not always bad -- it is necessary to help us know where we need to change and be changed by the Father.

Does pain really serve a useful purpose?

Confidentiality

Confidentiality is crucial to maintain when secrets have been entrusted to us.

Can you be trusted with precious and dangerous information?

The Toll Over the Long Haul

Criticism hurts even when, or maybe especially when, it is dressed in pretty packages and given to us over a long time.

What difference does a little criticism really make?