I read about a retired person who said:
I've seen people transform this way as they age in my work with marriage and family therapy and my ministry. As they age, some folks no longer worry about meeting the right people, saying the right things, and being in the right places. They're free now to be themselves under God's grace.
Christians should live this way all the time. Pleasing our loving Father is what counts. Being what he wants us to be — genuine, authentic — responding how he wants us to respond is what matters!