Together in Christ: 'Never!' — Proverbs 3:3-4

Professors and mentors taught me not to over-use words like "always" and "never." If I use them too often, people would see me as someone employing hyperbole to oversell what I'm saying. Then, when I speak about an issue of utmost importance, people would tune me out or turn down the volume of my passion on an issue of supreme importance. Even today, our proofreader reminds me not to overstate the significance of what I am trying to say. Jesus and his half-brother, James, also instructed us to keep our words simple and free from overstatement. ^[1]

In the great book of wisdom that gives us today's verses, the Holy Spirit is NOT overstating the truth when saying, "Never let loyalty and kindness leave you!"

Why would the Holy Spirit use this dramatic phrase?

The two Hebrew words translated "loyalty" and "kindness" are the same key descriptive words - "faithfulness" and "unfailing love" - that God chose to identify two of His qualities. ^[2] These qualities are essential to the character and nature of God! They are so important that we should wear them on "reminder necklaces" helping us remember these qualities. The apostle Paul said something similar:

Imitate God, therefore, in everything you do because you are his dear children. Live a life filled with love, following the example of Christ. He loved us and offered himself as a sacrifice for us, a pleasing aroma to God. ^[3]

The Holy Spirit transforms us to be more like God. One day, we will fully be like Him. ^[4] Until that time, however, we need to have symbols that remind us that we must NEVER let loyalty, kindness, faithfulness, and unfailing love leave us. We engrave these qualities on our hearts so that they will shine forth in our lives. ^[5] Just as God calls us to be holy because He is holy, ^[6] we choose to be faithfully loyal and kind because God is. These qualities show that our Spirit-imprinted DNA comes from God, not human flesh. ^[7]