Together in Christ: 'Learning to Value All People' — 1 Timothy 5:1-2

As we begin to understand the grace and love of God that saved us, especially when we realize that Jesus demonstrated these to us when we were unworthy, ^[1] then we must respond by treating others with gentleness and respect. ^[2] Jesus didn't just die for us; He also died to save those around us. Everyone in God's family is someone for whom Christ died and should be treated with respect, dignity, and love. ^[3]

Paul mentored Timothy, his handpicked ministry trainee. Since Timothy had not seen Jesus in person as he grew into early manhood, Paul wanted to give Timothy specific instructions on treating each age group honorably. These verses are some of the ways Paul instructed Timothy. As a servant of Christ and minister to Jesus' people, Paul wanted Timothy to understand that he must treat each group with respect and purity. Paul also wanted Timothy to recognize the importance of cultural and biblical expectations for handling himself in different relationships. ^[4]

A couple of principles are helpful for us as we look at Paul's instructions and apply them to our relationships:

• Every person is special and loved by God, so each one should be treated appropriately.
• We don't react to people harshly, but respectfully.
• We treat each other as family members in Jesus' church — fathers, mothers, brothers and sisters.
• We recognize that different situations in life require a different approach for each person.

It's popular in today's Western cultures to claim we treat everyone equally. Treating people fairly and respectfully is essential. But each person, and that person's station in life, needs to be considered as we seek to treat each other as fellow members of Jesus' family. Love should flavor each relationship. Propriety and respect should motivate our actions. We must treat each other as Jesus has served and blessed us, and this the Lord's attitude should lie behind our every word and action. ^[5]