Together in Christ: 'The Sacred Kiss' — 2 Corinthians 13:12

Wednesday, July 9, 2025

Greet each other with a sacred kiss.

Key Thought

Believers in Christ are brothers and sisters with each other and, as such, must be concerned about each other, support each other, and not do things that harm each other. [1] Our Christian brothers and sisters are not only friends of Jesus, [2] but they are also the younger brothers and sisters of Jesus, just as we are. We all share the same Abba Father, God. [3] Beginning very early in the history of the church, Christians shared a sacred family kiss with each other as a part of their worship gatherings. It was commanded and widely practiced in the early churches. [4] The sacred kiss may have been part of the "love feast," [5] possibly a common meal shared along with the Lord's Table.

Far from a gathering of anonymous people for a large worship gathering, the early church was rooted in authentic fellowship, the kind Jesus described in His teaching on genuine fellowship! [6]

So, rather than practicing the holy kiss as little more than an agenda item to accomplish in our gathering of strangers we call a worship service, we must move to a greater sense of belonging, accountability, responsibility, encouragement, and support for our brothers and sisters in Christ. Such fellowship means getting involved with each other as we love each other in tangible and practical ways. [7] We should know enough about each other and our lives that we know how to encourage and build each other up. We must not settle for "going to church" and having worship done to us or for us. Let's invest ourselves in worship that is rooted in the kind of fellowship Jesus shared with his disciples, both men and women.

[1] Matthew 18:15; Romans 14:10, 15; 1 Corinthians 8:11.
[2] John 15:15.
[3] Hebrews 2:14-18; Romans 8:14-17.
[4] Romans 16:16; 1 Corinthians 16:20; 2 Corinthians 13:12; 1 Thessalonians 5:26. (Some translations have "holy kiss," rather than "sacred kiss.") See also the "What is a holy kiss?" article. Among other things, this article clarifies that a sacred or holy kiss is not a romantic type of kiss. While something like a literal kiss on the cheek may be practiced in some cultures, a warm, sincere handshake or a hug serves the same purpose of demonstrating affection in others.
[5] Jude 1:12 NIV; Acts 2:46. See also the "What is a love feast?" article.
[6] Matthew 18:1-35.
[7] James 2:14-17; 1 John 3:16-18.

Today's Prayer

Father, please forgive our modern churches for becoming a gathering of strangers in many of our worship services, and change us so we experience true fellowship. Draw us closer to each other to be more deeply committed to authentic fellowship. We want not only to experience that fellowship but also to show it through sharing the sacred kiss, a warm handshake, or a hug - something that authentically displays our family-styled love between brothers and sisters in Christ and that means something special. In Jesus' name, I pray. Amen.

Related Scripture Readings

  • Matthew 18:1-35
  • Hebrews 3:12-13, 10:23-25

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Together in Christ is a daily devotional that focuses on what Scripture teaches about godly living in relationships.

'Together in Christ' is written by Phil Ware.

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