Justin, our second son, was about five or six years old, and he was telling me a story about something that had happened between him and his older brother. The television was on, the dishwasher was roaring, and I asked him to repeat what he had just said. "I didn't hear you," I said. "Speak up."

He sat down in the middle of the floor, folded his arms and stuck out his bottom lip. "I'm talking loud enough; you just aren't listening hard enough!"

Wow, that was an eye opening experience. Even a child knew that a conversation between two people involves talking and listening. Most of us do really well with the talking part, but often we fail when it comes to listening.

Remember Jesus' visit to Mary and Martha's home? (See Luke 10:38-42) Mary sat at the Lord's feet listening, while Martha devoted herself to all the preparations that had to be made. In their culture, hospitality was a social requirement and Martha was obviously concentrating on fulfilling those obligations while Mary was enjoying her guest.

The Bible says, "She [Martha] came to him and asked, "Lord, don't you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!"

That sounds like a sister telling on a sibling, doesn't it? There probably isn't a mother alive who doesn't have some "Martha" in her, but notice Jesus' response to her plea for help. "Martha, Martha," the Lord answered, "You are worried and upset about many things, but only one thing is needed. Mary has chosen what is better and it will not be taken away from her."

What a wonderful lesson for mothers! Do you consistently choose what is better, or do you stay worried and upset over many things? Do you spend the majority of your days and nights trying to clear clutter, do laundry, and scrub floors instead of taking walks with your children or reading to them bedtime stories or from the Bible or just listening?

What a wonderful lesson for mothers!

It wasn't that Martha did anything wrong. It was probably her nature as the older sister to be the one in charge, to see that things got done. That's fine, of course, as long as it doesn't interfere with what is really important — spending time with our Lord, our families, our children.

While we're on the subject of listening, remember the one to whom Mary was listening ... the Lord. Do you spend time communicating with him daily? Do you listen hard enough when he speaks to your heart?

God listens when you speak to him. The Bible tells us over and over that he hears our prayers and responds. God speaks to us through the Bible and we listen by studying his word. How can we know his will for us if we don't take the time to read ... to pray ... to reflect ... to listen?

This is the confidence we have in approaching God; that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us. And if we know that he hears us — whatever we ask — we know that we have what we asked of him. (1 John 5:14-15)

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Teresa Bell Kindred is a lifelong Kentuckian, a former teacher, a wife, a mother, a freelance writer, and a frequent contributor to HEARTLIGHT. She is the author of the book The Knot at the End of Your Rope: 10 Ways to Hold On When You are Stressed Out. Learn more at her web site.

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