For many Christians, criticism seems so much fun to give and yet so hard to receive. Criticism can drain the life right out of a sincere shepherd, minister, or Christian worker who is trying his or her best to serve God and the people of God. Unfortunately, those who see themselves as superior to others and who exercise the "gift" of criticism seem to be everywhere. I know it isn't really a gift, but some people sure do seem to take pride in it. I guess pride might be the problem.
Oswald Chambers has said, "The average Christian is the most piercingly critical individual known." He also says, "Criticism serves to make you harsh, vindictive, and cruel and leaves you with the soothing and flattering idea
that you are somehow superior to others." (My Utmost for His Highest Updated Edition.) Isn't that the way it is? We couch our criticism in so called spirituality to justify it.
In some churches, people have a tendency to see all that is "wrong," or what "isn't " being done, instead of being thankful for all that is "right" and "is" being done. Their frustration with what isn't being done, can make them critical. It would be better to be thankful and prayerful. The Bible says, "For judgment is without mercy to the one who has shown no mercy. Mercy triumphs over judgment." (James 2:13) Jesus says it this way, "Judge not, and you shall not be judged. Condemn not, and you shall not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven." (Luke 6:37) So let's walk in love, mercy, and forgiveness and not be so quick to be critical.
So the next time you find that critical spirit rising up in you, maybe it would be better to be thankful, merciful, and prayerful. I really think that in today's church we need less "Comment Taters" and "Agi Taters" and a whole lot more "Sweet Taters." The choice is yours!
