An interesting passage in the Bible says that you yourselves are Gods temple, and if anyone destroys Gods temple, God will destroy him.
In this case, hes not talking about you personally, but about you plural that is, Gods people, His church and about the intentional destruction of a community of people by selfishness and gossip and fussing and just insisting on your own way.
Gods people are sacred, and when somebody comes in to criticize and complain and stir up controversies its serious business. Its a big time sin. The church is warned to be careful about those people who tear down. Even though it does come naturally, just dont do it.
If you have to criticize, you go right to that person. You become a builder; you become someone who cooperates and encourages. When you care for His church Gods family God is going to richly bless you.