I think we know that everyone who wants to grow has to learn to change. But what are those things that motivate people to change? Is it status, or money? Is it power?
One bit of research done by Harris Poll found that people who changed said it wasnt status, it wasn't money, it wasnt power that made them want to change it was self-respect, affection, and acceptance. Those three were more important than the ones listed before.
Do you know where you get those, dont you? You get your self-respect from being respectable, you get your affection by being affectionate, you get acceptance by giving acceptance.
The principles taught in the Bible by the Good Lord way back yonder still work today.